Look what I do and what I post is up to me, if I am so interesting that you cant help but open my posts and then insist on being rude (not just your opinion) thats up to you dont blame me. I appreciate unbiased advice, not the same people throwing stones also not liking being thrown at. You have no idea by just a few posts what our relationship is but I can assure you Im not allowing myself to be used in any way right now, hence the needing advice. This has nothing to do with not wanting to hear the so called "truth" that you have all categorized this into but you need to stop the personal attacks, its just uncalled for on here...thanks