LDR Lover/Friend is Pregnant But Never Told me
Hello everyone, I have known this girl for the past 10 years and have been in a quasi long distance relationship with her for the past 3 years. I say quasi because we never made it official even though we talked about her moving down to Florida and us starting a family. I used to live in New Jersey but relocated to Florida since 2008 and have been having relations with this woman since 2010. I visit her up there she visits me down here
So I find out she is pregnant by SOMEONE ELSE through one of her friends social networking pages. I have been able to confirm that its true she is pregnant because I have pictures of her attending that friends baby shower.
My whole gripe is we always told each other that if something significant happens in our lives ie engagements, pregnancy, serious local relationship that we would tell each other. I found out she was pregnant in early to mid October. I tried to get her to tell and at that time she said nothing has changed in her life. At the time I didnt have the visual to know that she was in fact pregnant all I had was a couple of friends congratulating her on Instagram. I was really close with this girl so it struck me as odd that she would not tell me she was pregnant now going on 5 months. We were friends before we started this long distance relationship. So what should I do should I confront her and let her know what I know and that its super uncool of her not to tell me or should I just ignore it all together and never speak to her again? Thanks your input is appreciated