Do you think she is coming back?
My girlfriend of 5 years left me about a week ago, which she by the way has done many times, but always manages to make her way back eventually, but this time I can't be sure if that will be the case. We've been having some serious relationship issues for the past year and a half, and it's mainly my fault. There's one thing that is holding her back from me, that of which I would rather not talk about, but I am sure that some will assume correctly. Well, we've been talking on the phone for the past two days (A week after she left), the first night she talked to me, she wouldn't stop telling me how miserable she felt without me, she missed the way I held her, I'm the love of her life, and that she cannot live without me, but there is just that one thing that is keeping her away (I did tell her that I feel the exact way about her too). She also told me that she would be coming back only if I addressed that one issue in particular. The second night we spoke over the phone, we talked briefly, and she wouldn't stop asking me if I was messing around with anyone else, asking me where I had been, whom I had been hanging out with, and to promise her that I wouldn't be with anyone else while she was away, that of which I did promise not to do, and I intend to keep that promise. We also talked about me going to treatment, which is what she wants, and is what I'm going to do, and she told me that, that's all she's nervous about, and to just give her some time to regain her comfort level. I am going to treatment for that issue because I do want this work out, I love her, and I regret the way I've hurt been hurting her. We still talk about marriage and we still reminiscence about the past. It makes me feel depressed but hopeful at the same time. From a woman's perspective, does this sound like she really does love me and will come back? If any men have any expertise when it comes to women, please provide your input also. Please no trolling. By the way, if anyone is curious, I am aware of where she goes each time she takes off, which is to a female friends house, her safe haven, I guess you could call it that. I do feel remorseful for what I have done and I do want to change, and hopefully my first day of treatment will go well. Any answers would be greatly appreciated.