Guy I like and want to ask out is studying abroad...?
My first post here, I'm a total newb, but I'm desperate for help.
I started an internship in Boston this July and met the most charming, funny guy. I had a boyfriend at the time (who I've since broken up with), so there was some flirting and a couple lunch outings (as coworkers), but nothing actually definitive. The guy left to study abroad in Spain in August. We keep in touch on Facebook and have im-ed a few times. He gets back to Boston in early December, and then heads off to school in New York in January (but lives near Boston). I go to school in Boston. So it's kind of a weird long-distance during the school year type thing if it were to ever happen.
But I haven't been able to stop thinking about him for months. Should I ask him out over Facebook? Or is that a total faux pas? I really, really want to and I don't know of any reason he would reject me, unless he likes someone else or I'm just friend-zoned or something.