Freshly Dumped, What should I Do
Hey Everyone. Im sorry about the length of this entry but I really need some advise on what to do. My girlfriend and I go to the same college, and have been goin out for six months. During the summer, she lives in PA, and I live in CT. Even though it is very tough being so far apart, I feel as though, the distance has strengthened my feelings for her. Since she didnt have access to a car, I took every opertunity I had to go down and visit her. We called each other everyday, and things were good. Until about a month ago, when I felt as though she was becoming more and more distant from me. Conversations now only lasted about 10 minutes as opposed to hour and a half conversations we used to have. And finally, two fridays ago, she called me and said she had to stop being unfair with me. She used the distance factor and said that she didnt feel the same way she did earlier in our relationship. She hinted at the fact that we may be able to get back together when we go back to school, but I dont know if she was just saying that to make me feel better. She also said that she still wants me to call her often during the summer. Now this past week and a half, I have been an absolute wreck. Every waking minute, I am thinking about her, and how good she made me feel throughout our relationship. I have been trying the no contact thing, and it seems to help me sometimes, but other times, I cant stand it. I want to call so bad, and I dont want her to feel as though I dont care about her. But I'm thinkin that If I do call, I will only be reminding myself of her, and possibly making things worse. I dont want to ruin our chances of getting back together, so I dont know what to do, call her, or not, talk about the future, or just create small talk. Im really stuck.