I hate being the "average guy" at parties
I know this isn't exactly relationship advice, but there are more people viewing this board and I feel like I can get better answers here. So hear me out.
So i just joined a Fraternity in College and we had our first party. I wouldn't say I am ugly (I have nice muscles, athlete, good head on my shoulders) but I am not exactly "smoking hot." I had some good conversations with girls during the party, but the problem is I feel like they weren't at all interested in me and that they were merely speaking to me so they could get at my friends. I just hate how my "frat brothers" are all white (I am Asian) and all the girls are more interested into them and not me. I hate being an average looking guy because I am usually only interested in girls who are out of my league and it makes me sad that there I am always surrounded by better looking men and the majority of the girls just flock to them. Maybe I just need to be more confident and open? I don't know what it is, but if I am talking to a girl I just feel like they aren't really talking to me because they like me, but they are just using me as a placeholder while waiting to get at the other guys.
If someone can relate to me or give me tips, it would really be appreciated. I seriously wish I was either uglier or cuter. If I was uglier I wouldn't go for girls that constantly seem disinterested in me, and if I was cuter, well, then I wouldn't have this issue or be typing this up.