So I'm fairly new to dating, as I got out of a big relationship in September, and have been on a few relaxed but not so exciting dates so far. Absolutely nothing wrong with the guys, in fact quite the contrary: they were absolutely lovely, but no real spark.
On Monday I went on what I would by ALL means consider a great date; we laughed, he ordered a second drink, he was charming, he literally lifted my chin and kissed me as we were about to leave... I hadn't felt that much chemistry with someone from my first date. I could go into more details but i
Being that I am a NYC gal through and though, I did consider it could be one of those not so uncommon dates where things look great and then you never hear from him again... but he said he'd like to see me again, texted to make sure I arrived home safely, then said he'd drop a line the next day to arrange a next date (we both got home around midnight) and then... well didn't hear from him for nearly a day so I texted to ask how is day was. He answered, and we've texted back and forth a few times since then (it's only been 3 days) but no mention of a second date and frankly I hate having long conversations via text, I'd just prefer it we met in person. I don't want to play games, I sure like to think that I'm not needy, as I barely text him at all, but maybe I'm getting it all wrong...?
Ok so on to my question; should I just give up and accept that he's just not that into me as I thought, should I ask him if we can meet again, is he just hoping to text me to have his ego stroked...? What the heck! Can I really not trust my instincts at all?
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