Hello everyone. I'm new here but I do need some advise and was hoping some unbiased people could help. I'll keep this as brief as possible so as not to write a novel. Basically I was married and completely faithful for about 16 years. I have been on my own now for just over 2 years. In that time I have casually dated but could never find a spark. I was starting to wonder if I could ever love anyone the way I once loved my wife. Well, 3 weeks ago I met this woman on a camping trip. She was a friend of a friend. We hit it off pretty much instantly. There was just good chemistry between us. The only problem... her boyfriend was there too. The weird thing was, she didn't spend a lot of time with him for those 3 days but instead hung with me a lot. All very innocent of course. I would never disrespect someone like that. But as the weekend wore on, I felt that spark begin to pulse and transform into an aching feeling in my chest. I had never fallen for anyone this fast other than my wife when I was 21 (I'm 40 now). So before she left, she asked how she could stay in touch with me so I told her to find me on facebook, which she did almost immediately. Since then we have texted a bit and last Sat she asked me to meet her out for coffee at a local coffee shop. It was pretty late, like 11 at night but I said sure and went and met her. I showed up expecting her boyfriend to be with her but he was not. It was just her (and our friend who waited on us). We chatted for a couple hours and in that time, she mentioned her relationship with the boyfriend was less than 2 months old. I am finding myself very drawn to her but while I have these feelings, I assume she is just looking for a friend. She asked me to go to an art gallery this weekend out of town while her boyfriend goes to a wedding. I am confused by the nature of their relationship because they don't seem like a good match and they barely interact but when they do interact, it seems they really like each other. I guess I just am looking for opinions and advise on how I should handle this situation. I want to tell her how I feel but I don't want to step on any toes or make anyone uncomfortable. Does anyone have any solid advise on what I should do? Thanks in advance!