Falling hard with a friend
A few months ago I realized I was in love with one of my best friends. We are classmates at the same university and we spend a lot of time together either studying or just talking about our lives. I have developed deep feelings about him, but I feel that he only sees me as a friend study. Furthermore, he is flirting with a freshman there about six months. They almost never talk face to face, the flirt is always by texting. She spend every day sending him flirtatious text messages and he always replied her.
I simply don't know what is the best thing to do. We have a lot of fun together and I really like him, but he is always texting with the other girl. I don't know what is going on between them and I think it's very strange that they never speak personally and keep flirting so long.
I have already asked him if she was his girlfriend or if there was anything between them, but he gave me a negative answer to both questions.
I would like to get some advise about this. Everything I want is to try to change this state of things. I simply do not know how to do that...
Thanks in advance.