Furious with my husband and feeling wronged. How do I discuss calmly?
I wrote a long post about my issues with my husband and father of my child, but for whatever reason, it never posted when i tried 2 days ago. To make a long story short, my husband had been taking xanax behind my back and lying about it. This on top of not financially or emotionally supporting our new baby and generally being very verbally abusive. He suffers frome a mood disoder and landed in a psych ward and all of these issues came to a head. After he was released from the hospital, i was the one who had to reach out to get this conversation going. We agreed to meet in a public place tomorrow to discuss things. My question is, how do i handle this? I feel so wronged and he's no where near being scared or apologetic. He's on new mood medication right now so i guess that could have something to do with it. I just feel like someone who was lying and who threatened his wife with phsycial violent should be the one chasing, not me.
Uhg. I want to stay calm. Help?