It gets better.. im 8 months on..

Dated the most beautiful perfect girl for 2 years - or so i thought.

She got GIGS and left me literally out of nowhere.

8 months since the break up - about 3 months or so NC rest was low contact (pretty much nothing)

Around the 6 month mark things really picked up and i started to move on. Now at the 8 month mark I can finally say that I would not take her back. I still think about her and am not fully healed, but its barely a problem anymore.

I was a complete * * * * ing wreck for 6 months so it does get better!
And it comes out of no where too!

The last months of moving on are the fastest. I could not care less if she ever tries to contact me again

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Originally Posted by Bigboy77 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

She got GIGS and left me literally out of nowhere.

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Can a native english speaker please translate?

grass is greener syndrome? this post is incredibly motivating. ex left me 2 months ago but this makes me want to keep looking forward. cant wait to feell as good as you do!

@ the OP,So what's your point exactly?

GIGS= grass is greener syndrome

Meaning they leave you because they think there is something better out there for them.


And my point is: For everyone feeling like crap.. it took me months and months of hell but now im getting much better fast! and I feel like myself again. It only took 6 - 8 months lol.. Your perspective will change if you go NC and stay away!

Me and X broke up in April. It does def get better. Am I still in love with him? Yep, but, now I realized he is not the man I thought he was/I made him out to be. So sit there look at all the bad is it worth it?
why love someone that don't love you?

Ooo and mine left for the gig syndrome. Boy he in for a shocker LOL

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Ooo and mine left for the gig syndrome. Boy he in for a shocker LOL

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You're just jealous
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Originally Posted by Bigboy77 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

Dated the most beautiful perfect girl for 2 years - or so i thought.

She got GIGS and left me literally out of nowhere.

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Its almost never 'out of nowhere'. It just means you were clueless.

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Originally Posted by Bigboy77 [Dear Guest/Member you have to reply to see the link.click here to register]

GIGS= grass is greener syndrome

Meaning they leave you because they think there is something better out there for them.

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For them, there usually is. She may have been perfect for you, but clearly the converse wasn't true. Anyway, glad you're over her.

LOL jealous of what? he been with 8 hos in 6 mos...oh ya im jealous cause i want a shot at STDS too lol. you are kidding right?

Well this is why its so important to get the heart broken early on, it makes you very strong emotionally to go through these experiences I think, and eventually your heart strong, nobody and nothing can break it.

No it just makes you smarter and make better choices.