He prefers porn over sex, is this normal?
I am a very attractive redhead. My boyfriend and I have been dating and living together for about four years. The first two years we were together the sex was amazing and happened nearly every day. Now we only have sex about two to three times a month and when it happens he has difficulty getting off. I assumed he was having some kind of drive issues.
After a while this lack of sex started driving me crazy and concerned me a little. I eventually got the idea to check the computer to see if he even watched porn anymore. I found out that his drive is not the problem, that he actually watches porn and masturbates every day. I even found the crumpled up crusty paper towels in the trash by the computer to prove it.
I just don't get it! I am willing and eager to do anything and everything he wants, yet he would rather whack off to anal sex videos than do anything with me. :sad2:
Is this normal? What does this mean? Is there anything I should do? :upset: