Breaking somebody's heart: how do you do it?
In short I need advice on how to break up with my girlfriend. We have been together for almost 4 years, and I can't stand for it to go on any further. I have wanted to end this relationship for over a year now and I have no idea how to do it. How do you break up with somebody who has nobody else in their life and is completely emotionally dependent on you?
I don't hate this girl, but I don't love her either. The problem is that she is in love with me and want's to get married. She often steers the conversation in that direction too, and I can't stand it.
i'm in the same situation really
hi dear i'm in the same situation i'm trying to break up with my bf for over a year but still i feel bad and forgive him and here i'm still with him but trying again to breakup with him since he isn't here i believe it'll be easier for bpth of us, and yeah true you'll suffer more if you stay in that relationship, if you are not willing to break her heart.
you can either be direct which usually is very hurtful, or you can make her hate you. or at least make something that will make her convinced that you are not for each other example if she likes something this way you do it the oposite way, if she likes you to be home early come late, if she likes going out with you stop going out with her, and stop calling her, she'll get to the conclusion by herself. if you really care about her feelings. simply do not cooparate with her
i feel bad for my boyfreind too i still love him but i couldn't stand the way he treated me, i didn't like it and i'm using time and the fact that i don't call and he doesn't call either to help me break up with him, i really want the best for him.
and i hope you'll get over it soon man do what you think is fair for both of you ,and find a solution so you won't regret anything in the futur