Making a girl ready - preparing for sex
I want to ask a girl about this. Me and my fiancee have been together for a long time now, and my needs are getting to me. She is a beautiful girl, and she loves teasing me. Unfortunatly, we are both virgins. We have previously made slight references to sex when roleplaying (on a forum), but nothing more. Recently we have started to chat about it, and roleplay more indepth, though not really THAT deep yet. This is because we want to push our relationship to newer levels.
I'll try to use all of my courage to write as much as i can....
We ARE somewhat sexually active. We give each other handjobs, and i give her blowjobs (if that is what it is called when performed on a girl) now and then. But that is it. She is scared of how it may hurt if i finger her (uhh, inside, like, fingersex?), and she doesn't want to try giving me a blowjob (i don't know why actually, haven't gotten the courage to ask about it yet.)
I don't know if there are more ways to advance before the actual sex, which is what we are currently preparing for. This is part of it actually. While we aren't planning an exact time, we have planned it to happen at some point. When is determined by how fast we are able to get ready for it.
And to make it 100 % sure, we are both agreeing on this. We both want to become ready sooner or later. And we want to accomplish that through talk, roleplay and foreplay kind of sex.
so... the question here was... how can we prepare ourselves for it? Protection aside, that part is covered. Other "activities" in bed are also appreciated, and ideas on how to get her to try it as well if possible...
..That... pretty much took all the courage I have for now. I'm not good at talking about this so directly with anyone other than her... so bear with me.
also sorry for bad English, it isn't my first langauge.