hes been texting another woman but swears he didnt cheat. been together 11 years
about 4 weeks ago bf who i been wiv 11years said he was meeting friend after work so wd be later than usual. got bk n said hed been helping her for an exam coming up. two weeks later he said he was meeting her for coffee after work as she had a few probs n was a friend. we have been having issues ourselves mind. things arent what they use to be. we brought a house together a year back n its been tough. anyway, this week he meets her again n i ask a few questions. he got a bit defensive. when i asked if he txt her n he said yes. i asked what they talked about n he got funny. eventually after i insisted he showed me texts which he said 'ive never felt this way before' 'we need to take it slow'. he swears blind he hasnt cheated. as we were having probs n been together since we were 16 he liked the attention n when she wanted to kiss he cdnt do it. i told him to leave. today he returned n he is sorry. in pieces. said he dont know why he did it other than he felt we had drifted at home. do i believe him? i dnt hink he actually did anything but is he texts enough to end it?