I have no idea what to do here. any advice?
I still live with my parents (21 years old here)
I promised a friend of mind who just retired from the place I volunteer at, and she called me up asking me if I can go with her boyfriend to his eye surgery appointment and take the bus back home with him. She would of went, but she is babysitting her grandchildren. Now this is a problem for me, because I have to tell my mom I am leaving the house around 5am. I do not drive ( don't have my license), so I need to take the bus.
Now here is the other problem. I just checked the bus schedule to see when the bus I need would come. The bus from my moms house comes at 4:26am and I would arrive around 4:48am at my friends apartment(including walking when I get off the bus). I have to meet at their apartment because the Access-A-Ride only picks up at one location. Now I would be arriving one hour early, and I don't want to disturb them at 4:50am, especially if my friend is still asleep. I usually call when I am on my way, I do not want to wake her up at 4:30am. Now the other problem is if I went from my dads house, it would take 3 buses to get their and the first bus would arrive at 2am, then the next at 3:14am, then the last at 4:07am to arrive at 4:48am to the apartment. Now, if I cancel on my friend she probably would be mad and that would put her in another position and they would have to cancel the appointment for his eye surgery. Also, my mom probably might get ticked off I am leaving the house at 4:15am just to get the bus by 4:26am, and frankly I didn't expect the bus to only come once in the 5am hour because I know people who start going to work at that time. I really didn't think I would have to wake up at 3am, I though I would of been able to wake up at 4:30am, and get a bus around 5:15am, but there is no bus until 5:30am
either way my mom will be ticked off, and my friend will be mad. I should of checked the schedule last week when she asked me on Friday but I didn't think of it because it was my birthday Saturday and then yesterday I was away for the night so yeah. :/ What should I do here?