My boyfriend almost broke up with me becasue he says "I'm not good enough for you" or "It's for the better" or "You'll thank me in the future" even though he said its killing him. Can someone who thinks this too tell me why you guys think this? and is there anyway to reassure them to make them not think this? because it hurts so much when he says it, even if he doesnt follow through and doesnt break up with me...