Just friends zone-close but not too close
I wanted to share what I thought about the whole "friend zone" thing and when people say things like get close but him or her but not too close, because I need some feedback on whether my thought of it is true or not:
To me you can never get too close or be too good a friend. I look at it like this: If the girl REALLY likes you, it doesn't matter if you've been friends for a day or a year, she'd go out with you. If not she wouldn't. That whole "I would go out with you but I only think of you as a friend" or however it can be put just another excuse for not wanting to go out with someone because they just don't want to hurt their feelings.
Logically speaking I'd RATHER go out with good friends than strangers because you know them, you know how well you communicate and get along and it saves a lot of time because you know so much about them already.
That idea itself "not to get too close" makes no sense to me because saying I only see you as a friend is just another way of trying to spare someone's feelings.
Does that make sense?