My problems

Hi all friends and fellows !

I was a little depressed abt my monotonous life . I am a scientist / researcher and i have been noticing or feeling that I just have left with one purpose in life and that is ........... work . All my life one thing which i have run after is success in work . I have avoided all the girls that were sincerely attracted to me during the journey of education in name of keeping my attention towards work only , now I am feeling alone and very alone , I mean I am a religious person and I feel very close to Supreme Lord but obviously what can be extract from a romantic relationship is just characteristic to its own kind . I hate dating , I talk very less and even if I do then automatically it gets towards ........ work . What shud I do ? ppl say find someone , I ask myself how and who , the colleagues , fellows , neighbors ? I get into details and i get bored .

So suggest me what shud be done to get into normal life which others live .

Thanks