"good girls" vs. "skanks"
Ok, so this post will be full of speculation about people who I only know through tabloid magazines. I know this is ridiculous, but using celebrities as an example is easier since everyone knows them, so bear with me......
Recently the story came out that Sandra Bullock's husband had cheated on her with a woman that, according to the tabloids, appears to be a trashy, porn-star, white supremacist skank. Meanwhile, there are still porn-stars coming out of the woodwork claiming they slept with Tiger Woods.
Both Jessie James (Sandra's husband) and Tiger appear to have married naturally beautiful and classy women, but then cheated on them with (allow me to be politically incorrect), trashy whores. I know two men in my personal life that have done the same to their wives.
My question to men is - why? Is the the old Madonna/whore complex raising its ugly head? Do men want a nice woman to raise their kids, but a skanky sex-pot on the side? Is this because some men find trashy sluts more sexually attractive, but don't want to bring them home to mom? Does this stem from the fact that these women, especially in Tiger's case, were willing to do sexual things (threesomes, anal, S&M) that the wives were not so the men took it where they could? Is it just that trashier broads are more willing to sleep with a married man and then more likely to run to the tabloids after?
As a woman, I just don't get it, if I am with a nice, decent, man I have zero desire to have crazy sex with some sketchy looking dude. I was debating this topic with my male friends, and got a variety of reasons. I was wondering about the men's views of this on this board?
* I just want to be clear that I know not ALL men are like this-but it seems to be common with some men.