I've been with my girlfriend for almost a year and a half, and I love her with all of my heart. I really do. But, the most we've ever done is made out. We're both 18, and we're both one another's first relationship. I brought up the subject once and she said something to the effect of "I know it makes me sound like a little kid, but I just find that kind of thing gross". Eventually in the conversation I brought it up that making out was a sexual thing, and that's why she likes it. Since then, like 4 months ago, we've only done it like once. So I'm assuming she's not wanting to do that because of what I said. I told her to think more about touching or something at least, and that I'd wait for her to bring it up again. Like I said, now it's been like 4 months and I'm sure she's never going to bring it up.
This is a pretty serious mental block, no? I don't know how to help her, and it's starting to drive me mad. She's had a lot of mental block issues in the past and we've worked through them. She's the shyest person I've ever met, and since we've been together she's gotten past that for the most part. She also has really serious issues with authority to the point that anything authoritative can make her break down and cry. So I know this isn't just something I have to deal with, I know it's something that she can get past. I just don't know where to start without offending her.
I could also be completely wrong. I don't know. I'm lost.
