any suggestions for a long distance relationship?
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any suggestions for a long distance relationship?
He will miss you most if you aren't talking to him all the time.
Unless he doesn't like you all that much... then he might just be grateful.
we only talk a few times a week.... we usually text a couple times a day
If he feels that you are afraid he will probably go away, but let him free and he will be attracted by you.
Quit talking so much I guess.
He will only miss you if he feels emotionally connected to you.
well that's very interesting
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But hardly rocket science.
Yes, forget it. Unless he's coming back anytime soon.
xxazurexx says:
"But hardly rocket science."
unaware, lol
You can't "make" someone miss you. People miss someone or not. If he doesn't feel anything towards you, you could stand on your head and you wouldn't "make him" miss you. Even if you did,but it wouldn't come as his natural feeling, it wouldn't be permanent , he would stop missing you after some period and move on anyway.
Well, the other question is: what do you mean by LDR. LDR - we never met in person , LDR - we met few times but oh well we are in LDR or LDR - we know each other pretty well,one of us needed to leave for some time because of school,work,family whatever , we know when it ends and we have plans for the future.
I'm not sure that missing is something that can be force. However, if anything I would suggest making him feel good about himself. Be very complimentary, pleasant to talk to on the phone so that he looks forward to it and craves it. Be interested in his day and what he has to say about it. Tell him that you miss him. Also give him space. Dont talk to him every day all throughout the day. disappear every now and then. :-)
I see my GF every other weekend. I miss her because I love her. I talk to her every single night on MSN or the phone for at least an hour. You CANNOT make somebody miss you unless they truly care for you.
UPDATE: He misses me.