Originally Posted by
imagineallthe
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this will sound very boring, but you need to be yourself and relax about it. The guys i've fallen for have always had that confident quality (not ignorant or full of themselves). It's attracting to know they're in no rush, not looking to get laid. You DON'T have to know all the secrets, you DON'T have to know how to get girls - they come when you stop stressing about it. and whoever girls you attract that's only looking for status/money/good looks, etc., are not the kind of girls you would want. going out clubbing, making eye contact with a girl, and for have her to look away ignoring you, is no big deal! anyone can be shallow! it may seem like you want those girls - but when you get in a good relationship with someone, you'll realise nothing compares to someone who's in love with you : ) and the falling in love/being smitten, needs to be built on something more solid than "hey sexy, you look really good - wanna check out the poster collection of 'Saving Whales' in my room?".
and instead of direct flirting, just try smiling. Smile big, don't even care if she notices, just look her in the eyes and smile without any expectation. Girls can seriously smell expectations;) it may even be in you just because you're really crazy about meeting some woman. Try to relax, give it some time. Guys have no idea how easy it actually is to get girls :P
wish you all the best.