How could she return to abuser?
The woman i dated had been talking to her ex boyfriend lately. She used to avoid going places where he would be. All 3 of us bike race so we see him at the races. so she would avoid certain events if she knew he was there.
He was constantly emailng and calling her. He wanted to be friends but she didnt. She told me was an a##hole and abusive, said she had lived in constant stress for the last year and was glad to get out away from it. But the last month she started talking to him.
So last week I asked why she was talking to him. she said she just needed to get away from his negative energy so she was being civil with him. Said there was nothing going on. She said she didnt want to introduce me to him because he" was poison" and I was so much
'better than him". Started telling me about all the bad things he had done to her and was also mad at one of her friends for being friendly to him.
Also last week she told me she needed time to hang out with her girlfriends. she had been acting distant for a while but was afrid to say anythin because she feared losing my freiendship. I try to be understanding, she was so thankfull for not being crazy like her ex. She was hugging and kiising me on the cheek for at least 5 minutes.
So yesterday she shows up at the race in his car and she is hanging out with him all day. For two months she has been going to events with me. She practices with me almost everyday during the week , but now she is going with him??
She even introduced me to him. I dont understand this?
I got pissed off , but she told me they are friends and she can hang out with whoever she wants.
Just one week ago she said i was "so much better than him" .I dont understand this, how could she tell me all these bad things about him and then choose to hang out with him instaed of me?