Your Take On Possessive Men
Hi!
I know this is weird but after dating a couple or so guys after breaking up with my boyfriend a year ago, I'm beginning to think that I want a guy who is possessive and jealous. I started thinking about it after I met up with a girlfriend who I haven't seen for a while who now has a boyfriend. She told me that her guy is protective, possessive, jealous and sometimes needy/clingy and every girl envies her. I asked her why this is so because I thought that was a bad thing but she told me that at least with a possessive and jealous boyfriend, you're sure that he cares and that he's paying attention and you guys will always be together because he always pops up everywhere. Not like all those other men who will have you waiting for a call or a text and who you have no idea what they are doing or what they've been up to.
This really got me thinking. I mean, all the guys I've dated are all just so chill and relaxed and just so cool with everything. If they see me, that's fine. If they don't then that's fine too. But if I really think about it, these are all just signs of indifference right? I mean, after I thought about it, I do envy her. I want someone who'll always be there for me too and who will really, actually care. What do you guys think? Am I wrong?
PS: I've never been with anyone who is jealous or possessive. So I don't really have that much of an idea about what it's like.