no games, but it feels like that's what you have to do... why?
Hello ladies. Just curious about something here. In all the dating i've done. (i'm 45 and been married and in one other serious relationship. dated around a bit before and after). All the women i've talked to want an honest and open guy. Someone that tells them how he feels and what he wants. A genuine good man.
Well it always seems like you start seeing someone and show them that you are a good man( I think i am). I've been the type to go the extra mile to show that i care and treat a woman like she should be. Not falling all over her, but doing little things and even big things sometimes to show her that she is important. Like leaving a note once in a while somewhere where she will find it later. taking mental notes on her likes and dislikes and remembering that stuff. noticing if she wants something and sometimes getting her that out of the blue just because. surprising her for lunch. Opening doors for them, ect... I just like to do that kind of stuff. Oh and in bed... well lets just say that i'm not happy unless she is. I'm not saying I'm Mr. Big stuff or anything, just that one of my biggest turn ons is knowing that she is. To me that's what it's about. Both people having as much pleasure as possible. Whether it's a lot of foreplay, touching, anticipation or excitement. Or whatever.
So you meet a woman, they say they want all that, then they don't. I may be an ignorant man. I know a lot of woman crave a bad boy that's kind of a jerk sometimes or well not really a jerk, but someone that doesn't do what i do. I just believe in treating my lady right and making her feel like she is the most special one in the world. I love doing that. So why is it so hard to find a woman that likes that and appreciates it without her getting bored i guess. I know you got to keep it spontaneous and not too much attention, but it feels like it's a guessing game. do i back off today and make her wonder where i'm at or what i'm doing or does she want me to contact her most of the day. very confusing for this guy.
Really hard. I'm sure you get this a lot. If you all could give me some answers that would be fantastic. Thanks