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I'm not saying you are, but you say he's paid for everything since you've started seeing each other. Maybe it's his way of seeing if you'll dump him on his ass if he stops shellling out. You really SHOULD make more of an effort to pay for stuff, too.
I told him from NIGHT #1 that I wanted to pay. He wouldn't let me.. as in physically forced me to put my wallet away. I have paid for a lot of things since... including a very expensive medicine ($100) he wasn't getting because he said he couldn't afford it (yet he can put aside a lot of $/week to have this new instrument made?). I've also bought him quite a few gifts already (things he needs and just sentimental). He has not bought me anything similar.
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He's being honest with you and gave you a legitimate reason.. and you're upset he doesn't take you out as often and blaming him getting an expensive guitar? Trying to save money doesn't translate into not treating yourself to things-- especially something to help his other career and bring in money.Please explain to me how you think you're a booty call if he's still taking you out, makes you dinner, and doesn't let you lift a finger, etc?
I agree it's his right, but I don't know that the instrument is a necessity as he already has one. This scenario is also similar to one I had with my ex who I found out was spending his supposed "saving $" on someone else.... so it's a bit of a sore subject for me and considering his not buying medicine he desperately needed.