my new boyfriend doesnt want to kiss me as often as i want
hi
im new here. I recently have a new boyfriend we have been together for 3 months. I broke up with my exboyfriend 4 months ago because i couldnt do long distance. My ex was great, he liked to kiss me alot and cuddle. I felt open towards him and could tell him about anything. I knew he would still like me the way i was right in the beginning. But things changed he wasnt man enough behaved like a little girl and we didnt have any deep converstation which i didnt like so i broke up with him. he was however very romantic and very very sweet and is french
Now there is ryan he is a teacher 26. I first met him through friends in a club we flirtet alot and i could talk to him perfectly. But afterwards he didnt ask my number and asked to add me on facebook. ok so i added him and he asked me through facebook on a date. Our dates went fine, 2nd date he already told me that he really wanted to have a relationship with me. I prolonged it for 3 months after i made it official. Also he studied psychology and had some traumatic experiences in the past, maybe thats why he wants to be my boyfriend because i had many traumatic experiences in the past and suffer from depression which he knows about. maybe he just wants to "help" me or analyse me but i dont know. Anyway the problem is, that he never really wants to cuddle me. He doesnt like to kiss me as often as i want. I think even he studied psychology he told me i should tell him about my past until later. But i think he doesnt want to hear anything about my bad past life. He is half english and half algerian but was born und grew up in england all his life. He never calls me, never text me nor answers my texts and never pick up his phone when i try to call him. He told me he is not a mobile phone kind of person and only uses his phone as an alarm clock.
We dont see each other so often only 2 or max 3 times a week although as a teacher he must have a little more time than average workers since he finishes work at 4pm!
So the lack of cuddling and kissing is a big major thing that i might consider to break up with him. i dont have enough passion and i dont know whether he really likes me. whenever i try to kiss him sometimes he backs off (i dont have bad breath!!) when i want to cuddle him he tries to push me away a little.. I try to call him and see whether i can pop in because he is sick and i wanted to see whether he is ok. he says yes sure but i always have to be the person who ask him to meet up.
I also dont date to talk to him as open as i want because i dont know whether he wants to hear it or not. I maen not necessarily my past but stuff about me. I think its soo difficult comparing with my ex...luckily he is funny and we can talk but thats about it. Oh yes and sex is not as great as i sort of hope...
so guys is it normal for u not to like cuddling and kissing? why doesnt he contact me....but he was the one who wanted to have a relationship with me so badly. why do u guys tend not to call ure girlfriend? is it soo hard to dial a number???
why why why
please respond thank you
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