Not sure if he likes me...
Heya,
I'm a gay first year student at a uni in England and on the first day of uni I met this guy who is now a very good friend at uni. I care for him alot and have always liked him, ever since we met. The reason why I said hello to him on the first day of uni was because I thought he was very attractive!
Anyway, he knows I like him (I wrote him a letter a while back) but we haven't spoken about it this year. The thing is, he can be very introvert and not talk about his feelings whereas I am completely the opposite and have to talk about mine! So, I really like him and we flirt all the time. We do everything at uni together! However, he's not as comfortable at showing his sexuality to others as I am and so having an open relationship at uni scares him I think so that puts him off. Secondly, we are really good friends and I DON'T want to lose what we have. Thirdly, I am sharing a house with him next year so I don't want things to be awkward!
We are on vacation and he recently came and stayed round my house for the weekend. It was great! Nothing happened though :( but we did tend to play fight a lot! Is this not a sign of flirting???
It's so difficult because I have such strong feelings for him! I know it will probably never happen but I feel such chemistry between us that something is telling me to wait (whether or not this is simply my imaginsation going wild I'm not sure). I think we would be perfect together - his strengths are my weaknesses and my strengths are his weaknesses!
So...should I wait around? Maybe next year, with the intamacy of a house, things might start happening! Or should I except our relationship as purely friendship based and try and move on??? Please help
xxx