First off, I don't understand "fix other people's problems". I am not here for my own ego aggrandizement, as you are.
Second, I would do anything for this person. She, in her crazy world helped to save my life. Do you understand that? That love can save someone's life?
From your responses, I doubt it...
Third, why would you tell me it is my life and I learn the hard way if I don't take your advice?
I don't know you from adam.
I see you putting out a lot of cliches and simply, trite answers to situations here.
If you have something to say that is positive, constructive, has meaning sure, let me know.
Otherwise, you come off like dr phil and you ain't got a degree in love, so kindly **** OFF.
Thanks.