Ladies what's the bigger turnoff?
Ok ladies say you've been on two dates with two guys.
Scenario one: You like guy 1 after two dates and would like to continue seeing him. You want him to kiss you goodnight on the lips but he doesn't.
Scenario two: You don't like guy 2 after date 2 and no longer want to see him. But he gives you a goodnight kiss on the lips.
My question: Which is the bigger turnoff - That guy 1 didn't take the initiative to kiss you or guy 2 kissed you but you didn't want it?
Being a guy I know we have to take the initiative - whether it be asking her out, making plans for the date, first kiss. etc: you know the beginning stages. But my problem is that usually by the second date I'd like to end with a kiss if I like her, but I don't want to make the girl feel uncomfortable if she is not ready for it/doesn't want it. So what should I do? Go for it, even though she may not want it, or wait so I avoid possibly making her feel uncomfortable. On the other hand does it even make you uncomfortable to get this kiss if you don't like him? If for nothing else I would just see it as an ego boost for the girl cause the guy finds you attractive.
Thanks for any thoughts on the subject