After reluctant First Date, time to move on?
Hi all,
My fist post here, and sorry for the poor english
I met a girl that I found on a dating site - She was very reluctant to have a first meeting with me. she is 33 (i'm 39) and she never met an online guy before. I even tried one time a "If you are not interested just say no" - she answered that we will met some day - after several days of excuses we finally met as she told.
We had a great time, consumed 2 bottles of wine and talked for 3 hours - we kissed and was fine.
After the meeting, I'm still having difficulties for a second meeting.. I tried 1 time and she gave more excuses - we talked a bit but her behavior is the same from before the meeting: Not so much talking, always busy. etc. Sometimes she says: "I think it will not be possible to met today, if it <my excuses> do not occur, we will met.
I have no evidence that the excuses are not true - sometimes she say she is out of the city for example - but she is always reluctant for a meeting.
What I do now? Move on? Force her to say yes or no ("If you are not interested just say no and I will move on")? Continue talking in the same way to see what happens?
I'm very interested in this girl, obviously she is not so interested, she is a really attractive girl - I'm suffering with this situation and really don't know if is time to move on or try a little more.
What do you think?