He says I need to text him first. What gives?
So, things have progressed since my last post. We have gone out 3 times. Gotten physical. Great chemistry. Great times. But, something is off.
Radio silence when we are not together or chatting at work. Aside from "on my way" texts and when he initially text me when I gave him my number, he has initiated contact TWICE.
On all 3 of our dates he has openly said "text me first. No no no text me you're not bothering me. I'll be staring at my phone text me." On our first date he said he doesn't like "constant communication" and "would rather call someone". He has never called me.
Huh?!
I know I need to pin him down for an actual explanation for this. But what gives? I have reached out a few times but I feel honestly uncomfortable...like I'm chasing/being the aggressor. And it comes across as disinterested on his part.
Thoughts?