I'm married, going out with a girl who's got a boyfriend and I seriously need help.
I'm 28 and Ive been married for 2 years. We get along just fine, but she's way too cold and sex is not good. Also, we have other small problems, as she's too jealous, doesn't like many things I do, suffocates me and so forth. We talked about that before marriage, and she had promised me she would change. However, as married users may already know, people don't change after getting married. They just get worse.
So, I was unhappy 2 weeks ago I met a 21-year old girl in a web chat. We talked for a while and decided to see each other. We both liked it, had sex and kept contact. After that, we've been seeing each other everyday from Monday to Friday and exchanging hundreds of messages a day.
She says she's not happy with her boyfriend, he's too jealous, cold and not very polite. Plus, there's 2 months since she last saw him as he lives in a different city. Well, we really liked each other and she says she's totally onto me. She broke up with him yesterday and said she wants to date me.
Now comes the problem: I'm afraid of trying this, because I don't know if I could, or I would be capable of, trusting her.
Any thoughts/opinions on this? It's killing me inside and I don't know what to do. Any help is highly appreciated.
Please note that I KNOW I'M WRONG in cheating my wife.