My girlfriend off 8 years is no longer one bit interested in sex with me. Both in our twenties, we have never had an exciting sex life. These days 2-3 months can go by without sex. I have stopped trying with her because I can't take the consistent rejection. Last time I start kissing her and put my hands on here my advances where stopped because I had not planned with her that we where going to have sex.
It is easy to look in from the outside and say that we aren't right for each other, but outside the bedroom we have a great relationship and love each other very much. I may be old fashioned but I am off the belief that a woman should look after her man in the bedroom, same goes for a man with a woman but I'm not given the opportunity.
I spent the whole summer working out very hard and have got into very good shape to try and get her interested in me, but she not once noticed my toned body or commented on how well I done.
Is it possible that I am doing something wrong, everytime I bring up the subject she makes me feel like here we go again complaining. On our last 2 week holiday with our own Villa and had no sex. On the last night I went all out and tried everything, I ended up getting a hand job and she wouldn't let me touch her, and made me feel like shit for it afterwards. We are going on holiday again in a few weeks and I've had that much rejection I have lost my sex drive completely. Its almost like she gets off on rejecting my advances.
I don't understand how she could be so uninterested in me. The other day we where out walking in the woods and I suggested we go find a quiet place and have a bit of fun. I was made to feel like a sex pest for that one. I read all these relationship help guides and they all say try new things to keep the sex alive, but I can't even get her to talk about sex.
Could someone please give me an in sight to her thoughts from a woman!
