How could I get her attention?

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12-09-12, 07:15 PM
drewyeoboy

How could I get her attention?

Hi, I've been dating for almost 6 months now. At first, everything was OK (even up till now) and I was quite contented with the attention that she gave to me. I am always the one who took the initiative to create conversation with her (ask about her stuffs etc). I know this is what a guys should do. But I am a human too, I do need attention.

I would like to know how could I get my girlfriend's attention? Could it be that I'm always the one who starts to find her, create conversation and therefore she leave it to me?

I was thinking to just keep myself away for a while and see if she misses me. Don't want to do anything stupid and regret later. Need some advice. Thanks.
13-09-12, 01:18 AM
JB9

Easy, tell her YOUR needs and what YOU feel is lacking in the relationship. Don't play games, be honest. Communication is the key.
13-09-12, 01:36 AM
Sonrisa

first of all i have no idea what you are talking about, getting attention how?
13-09-12, 04:15 AM
smackie9

To be desirable is to make yourself less available.
13-09-12, 01:49 PM
Boisdevie

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To be desirable is to make yourself less available.

Unless it makes them think you're not bothered about them.
13-09-12, 02:48 PM
smackie9

It's a natural reaction (especially when it comes to the female brain) to go after someone that doesn't give you as much attention. And I said "less" available, not completely ignore them. As they say, distance makes the heart grow fonder.
17-09-12, 05:18 PM
ebru

I agree that be honest in relationship. And try to conversation much.