Partner of 3 years dumped me by text and I'm struggling to come to terms with it!
I'm almost 38 and my bf is almost 39 both divorced, we don't live together but have been in a relationship for 3 years. It seems to follow the same cycle where everything is really good then every few months he finishes with me for no valid reason mainly out of anger then he completely cuts of contact for 4/5 weeks then gets in touch again, and I take him back. 2 weeks ago he did exactly the same again and finished with me with a 2 line text for no real valid reason and I haven't heard from him since. He had quite a traumatic childhood and a pretty rough divorce as his ex wife was cheating on him and they have a son together. He can be a bit controlling at times and I actually suspect that he may suffer from narcassistic personality disorder. But I really love him and I' struggling to come to terms with being cast aside yet again and expecially with no explanation other than a 2 line text after a 3 year relationship and I was very close to his son. I haven't tried to contact him becuase I feel that this time enough is enough and that I should try to move on so I have changed my phone number and blocked him from my hotmail account but we work for the same company although not in the same office so it's unlikely I will see him at work. I just can't stop thinking about it and going over and over it in my mind that he can just cut me off from him and his son so easily, and wondering if I will ever hear from him again.