How do I make my girlfriend understand?
I had a relationship with this girl for about 1 & half year some 8years ago. Then life moved on, sometime after the break up we became friends. At that this I had a new girlfriend. Obviously, my new girlfriend was jealous of her for I don't know what reason. Maybe its just natural. My new girlfriend is some what kinda controlling type, so I lost almost all my female friends after her which I found unfair since she had contacts even with her ex. I tried everything to make her understand my perspective but you cannot win this argument specially when you are a guy. So secretly I had contacts with my old friends through a social networking site. Some how she found out about it & labelled it as I am cheating, I use to seldom stay in touch with my friends, no flirting nothing but still I got labelled as a cheating partner. Then, some year passed, we had a baby and again I made an account to just stay in touch with my old friends. Since my girlfriend is good in spying, she saw my profile on this social networking site. I just wanted to save myself from all the drama & bad labelling so I told her its not me, probably someone stole my picture from my other account. I do not know how to make my girlfriend understand. Whatever happened between me & my ex is about 8years old and my girlfriend is still stuck on it. Is it really so bad being in touch with your exs? We are parents now & there is a lot of things where our time & energy should be going instead of getting in to matters that are so old & dead. Honestly, I really do love my girlfriend & in my every future planning I see my baby & girlfriend in it. I have no physical or conversation contact with my old female friends. We just seldom exchange messages because I have known these people for about 8-9years so its quite hard to break & forget. Do you think my girlfriend will come over this social networking account thing on its own or what should I do to prove it is not me. Thanks for the help everyone.