Will he change for me because he loves me more?
I’ve been with my boyfriend for a while now, seven months. He has done a lot. I got a ring, card with pictures in it and we’re in Memphis right now living with his real mother for the time being until we decide to go back to Chicago where my mother is and where his step mom and real father is.
At one point, he was staying with me at my moms house, she even got us a dog of our own.
His ex was hurt when she found out he was messing with me from a national boyfriend post I put on Facebook. She messaged me asking for the truth about what had went on between us behind closed doors because he wasn’t being honest with her and he was telling her that I was just a friend, to spare her feelings obviously.
I told her the truth, when he found out she messaged me, he told her to never call or text him again to stop texting “his girl(me). After that, we were official. On Halloween, we even. Dressed up as if we were apart of the purge and my mom took pictures had uploaded them on Facebook.
My mom considers him her son in law, even on Mother’s Day she included a picture of him as her child along with me and my two siblings saying how she’s grateful to have us as her kids and was happy for him to be her future son in law.
Things have been getting more serious with me in seven months than it ever did with her in a year and some months they were together. It may be hard for her to see, but she just wasn’t the girl for him.
He never did any of those things for her. The only reason he has hit her up a few times, though he hasn’t done it in like two weeks, was for sex.
She never gave in though, one time she told him that she knows me and him are still together and to go and be faithful to me. He never really admitted to her that we are still together after she said that he just quit messaging her.
He never said he missed her or anything. He missed her sexually. It’s not like he actually wants her back. If she was the one he truly wanted to be with he wouldn’t have cheated right?
Isn’t it impossible for me to be a rebound when he’s giving me treatment in seven months that she probably never got in the year they were together?