My love life is a mess! Your help please?
I broke up recently, and to be honest I'm not quite over it yet.. It's been about 6 weeks now.. I'm not sure how long it's supposed to take to get over someone, but when I get lonely it's really hard to resist making that phone call.. But at the same time, there's someone else I like. I'm just not sure whether I like him because I don't want to be alone, or because I really want to be with him.. I don't think I'm ready for a serious relationship yet, but there's another girl who likes him, and I'm worried that if I wait until I'm ready to date him, it will be too late.
About a week after I broke up with my ex, that guy I like started inviting me to his place sometimes. We ended up kissing a few times, but during the past two times I was there he didn't try to kiss me at all, and I really don't know why. I'm worried maybe he realized he wants to be just friends after all.. Or maybe it's because I felt like he was moving too fast the last time, and now he thinks I don't like him?
I don't know what to do! Should I just forget about him and focus on myself for a while, or should I try to hook up with him? Because basically we're a good match.. there's nobody I know who would be better for me than him..