I have been with my boyfriend since 18 and have been going out with him for 6 years. He’s my best friend and I love him. Lately, I’ve been wondering whether we’re just really good friends and that’s it. I’m not sure I’m in love with him. We get along great and have a lot in common but our sex life sucks. ~ twice a month for the past few years. We’re both in our mid-20’s and attractive. Shouldn’t we be having more sex? It’s like there’s no spark between us. This is why I’m wondering whether we’re just friends. I tried talking with him about our relationship but he just says that everything is fine. We’re talking about marriage. I don’t want a loveless marriage no matter how great of a guy he is. I’ve also had a crush on another guy lately. I’m wondering if we’re just going through the motions by heading towards marriage or if it’s just because I haven’t really dated anyone else and now I’m just curious. Is it time to break it off or am I just nuts for thinking that our relationship is a sham?
Please advise.
Thanks.