Will someone PLEASE help me..broken hearted and emotionally damaged..confused.
I have dated this girl for 3 years. We were so in love and we still are I think. We broke up because I went through a bad phase where life was just hitting me hard. Stressed from school and family and I always had an attitude I didnt treat her how I used to. She got a new boyfriend like a day afyer we broke up. Not her type at ALL. Trust me, hes so dumb and has no future, complete white trash We btoke up a month ago.
Anyway she emailed me after like a week or 2 of no talking at all. We caught up and she says stuff like "oh do you feel empty...I do sometimes", "when I hear sad songs I think of you and us...when things remind me of you I get sad", her boyfriend asked her out to some expensive ball and she said she thought about how I would have done it like asked her, she said when we talk it fills in a whole in her heart, she keeps saying she has so much stuff that she wants and needs to tell me. We even are wanting to move onto the same college (transfer) next year or atleast she tells me the one she is tranferring to would be a good fit for me after junior college, constantly says people dont understand us or the situation.
Here is where I'm afraid I messed up, getting too friendly and sending emails back. Being there for her you know? I want to get her back and her new boyfriend treats her like crap sometimes she even says when she has anxiety attacks he yells at her, I would never do that to her. I sent her a huge email that told her not to let him control her and that she was beautiful and deserved the best. She texted me back about how much she appreciated me and would take into mind what I told her and that it brought her to tears. She complained about stuff she hates about him and then she says but "sometimes he treats me well". Honestly Im just confused. I havent contacted her back Its been 2 days. I feel like shes getting too comfortable with me and she will get used to it and fall into a "oh he needs me whatever hes still here" phase. I made it seem like I'm extremely happy and moved on and that I'm doing my thing with MULTIPLE girls lol just so she won't think I'm needy. Should I go with no contact...I need advice. I do want her back. Idk if I should continue to email her...
