Self Confidence lost in current relationship
Hi all,
I've been dating a great girl for 2 months now and I've already started to lose my self confidence.
It happens every time I'm in a relationship.
I'm very confident when I'm single but the moment I start confiding in a partner I start to get insecure.
Maybe this girl isn't for me. I feel she judges me and isn't sensitive enough for a relationship. She actually admitted she needs to work on her sensitivity.
Any help please?
Jim
What is the worst that can happen? Can you manage that?
Hi Jim!
It sound like she has some insecurity too... then probably the best tips is to talk more with each other.
About your own self confidence, I would say to think about the worst that can happen. What is the worst that can happen with this girl? Do you think you could handle that i it happend? If you do, you don't have anything to worry about... I recommend you to sit down and think about the differences of being single contra in a relationship. What is it that make you so confident on your own? Try to make a positive image of how you are then, and use that today in your relationship.
Anders