How to overcome insecurities
Hi,
I would run into this man a lot at my work. We have each other on facebook so I started talking to him on there. I eventually asked him to hang out. He agreed. I had this misunderstanding with a man that lasted months. I feel for him but he said he wanted to be single because he had a stressful time with his ex and just wanted to be single for a while. I ended up feeling a lot closer to him than he did to me after. Months later I tried talking to him again. I thought we enjoyed talking to each other. I asked him about hanging out again and he said he wasn't sure. He told me I was too insecure and clingy and he didn't feel comfortable being my friend. He said he just wanted to fool around with me and never have anything more with me. He also told me that if it hadn't been for my insecurities we might have been able to be friends. He said that maybe in a few months we could talk again...I just need to get over this myself. How do I get over insecurities? I feel like I have a lot to offer (i.e. educated, nice, pretty) but I always feel bad about myself. I took a chance on this guy and then hell broke loose...