Need advice- Have girlfriend I love, but have hard to control "urges"
Hello,
I'm a 21yr old male, and my g/f is a 21yr old female. We have been together for almost 3 years now and I really love her. More and more, I have been getting physical desires, or urges, to try other girls. I was in a situation in Vegas where I was at a club with my girlfriend, and there was a point where she went to hang out with her girl friend and I went to hang out with my guy friend. When I went to go looking for her later, I got lost in the crowd, and being super drunk and surrounded by hot girls, I began to lose control of myself and danced and flirted with other girls. Eventually I met up with her and I told her what happened, and I felt extremely guilty and still do. Although at this time it was only a minor incident and I have since been forgiven, I think it could have been a lot worse.
Well, right now she is about to go on vacation for a week with her family. I just moved in to a school owned apartment for summer and I am the only one at the apartment (for one reason or another, the administration was unable to get more roommates to fill the apartment). Summer school starts in a week and I am surrounded by bored hot girls. I am getting these urges/feelings that I will be able to do what I want and have fun with other girls and my g/f will never even have to know about it, even though I know later I will regret this and that I don't REALLY want this.
Usually when I am distracted during school, or always hanging out with my g/f I will be fine, but right now I don't feel like I can control myself too much longer. I have always been a pretty disciplined person (quit smoking cold turkey 3years ago) EXCEPT when it comes to this matter. I love my girlfriend and I want to be with her. FYI, my g/f is very attractive to me, and puts out, and has pretty much all the qualities I want, but I still find myself wanting more.
Should I tell my girlfriend about the way I am feeling right now? Any advice on what I should do? Appreciate any help or advice!
Thanks,
Steve