Is a 'coffee date' a real date?
I've always wondered how guys took this. If a girl asks you to coffee, would you assume that something was going on at least on her end?
Point - I asked a friend of a friend I just met to coffee, because yes, I think he's pretty great, and I want to get to know him better. I just don't know how he took it - friends only? I mean, it's not dinner...
By the way, he said, he would love to. I'm in his Blackberry calendar and it's a done deal this week.
Yeah, so if you guys could just clue me in, I'd love to hear your thoughts! :)
Thanks!
oh, forgot to add this...
You guys are great. I'm more chill about it right now, but the one thing I won't forget was this...I honestly wish more people in general were like this: he maintained good eye contact with me, hardly ever looked away and was not distracted by anything else in the cafe. It made me nervous at first because he was looking so intensely at me in the eyes, but occasionally he'd smile and that would make me smile. Even if I looked away for a sec and then looked back, he'd still be looking at me in the eye.
Maybe that's just him being polite. Either way, it's not something I see in most people, guy or girl. I really appreciated the attentiveness and respect.