need urgent advice. what to do about my controlling bf?
I'm 18 years old and been with my boyfriend for 2 years next month. Anyway, when i first met him he was the local player. he had loads of girls, but he genuinely calmed down after we got together.
However, for the past year and a half hes been controlling. He doesn't like me wearing certain clothes. He says he doesnt like the shape of my boobs being on show (and this is in tops such jumpers or baggy tshirts) and makes me wear really long cardigans/coats to cover the shape of my bum. No flesh is ever on show, but he calls me a slag for how i dress. He says i only do it to get guys attentions and he only tells me what to wear so no men look at me. but i dont dress in a provocative way at all
Not only this but he doesn't let me talk to any of my old school friends who are all guys cause hes convinced i have been in a relationship with them all, despite the fact ive told him fully about my past.
He has been abusive and hit me a few times, but hes seemed to have controlled himself more now with the anger. He wont even accept me on facebook and put me as his girlfried because he doesnt want his friends to look at my face. :S
i really am madly in love with him, and he can be the nicest boyfriend in the world. but his anger and jealousy are too much. am i being stupid, or should i do something about it? please, im so confused its unbelievable