The one I actually want blew me off : / ..why?
Hi everyone.
I have been single for a year or so.
And for about 7 months or so I have been actively pursuing dates just to get out there and getting to know new people.
I have been on quite allot of dates and have not really met anybody who particularly stands out as someone I can commit to.
My problem is I am a hard core committer and I want to make people happy BUT I have learned that I have to find the right person to do so with.
So now this one girl came along over a dating app which I actually really really like! She quickly gave me her number and in about a weeks time I had a coffee date going with her.
On my way to the date she messaged me saying sorry she is going to have to cancel the date. Her stomach is acting up and hurts.
Her messages went in the line of.
Hey xxx, Sorry to do this but I`m afraid im going to have to cancel coffee today.
I asked if ok are you ok?
reply: I have a stomach so dont really feel up to it.
That was the end of the convo.
So usually when something like this happens they will generally ask for a rain check or reschedule the date but she didn`t OR I will just not bother again.
So I am not sure why this happened BUT I really like this girl so I am analyzing the situation probably a bit too much.
Now my end goal here is to at least get her on the first date. If things are not going anywhere from there then fine I wont bother.
BUT what is my best move here to do that?
Thanks
Tarc