How to make my wife more attracted to me?
Hi!!
I need ladies' opinions... please help!!
I'm a guy in my late 20s and have been married to my wife for a few years now. However I feel she's losing respect for me. Basically we're not having sex anymore. I have high testosterone (had it checked) so I have very high sex drive and get excited very quickly (sexually), so sometimes the sex (that we used to have) wouldn't last long. Now I have to ask her trillion times before she agrees to have sex and I have stopped asking. I don't want to cheat on her so I help myself (if you know what I mean).
I'm an emotional guy but I think this is turning into a weakness. Lately I have had fears of her leaving me. She threatened to a couple times and I brought her back by basically begging and putting all my pride and manhood on the line. Now I feel she does not respect me as much.
I'm a good looking guy (I always get looks from the ladies when we go out), I'm in shape and make good money. By the way I work and she stays at home.
I feel like she doesn't trust me as a man. She treats me like a boy. Every time I feel a little disapproval in her voice or face, fear comes in that she may abandon me and so I correct myself. The relationship seems unbalanced where whatever she does is ok but what I do may not be. I sometimes feel like a dog and she has the leash on me. The leash being the leash of abandonment.
Could you ladies please give me some advice? I'm good looking and fit and make good money... what am I missing? And what should I do to fix it?
Thanks!!