Okay I'm new here, but I need some advice:
3 or 4 months ago I went to a party of a friend of mine, after some time this pretty girl walks in and I felt attractive to her, so we talked a little and I liked her more and more. I went to get a drink and when I came back I saw her dancing with a very good friend of mine. They kept on touching each other and I was furious at him. The next 2 or 3 weeks it looked(the weren't) like they where bf and gf. My 'friend' was going on an holiday and when he came back, she had 'dumped' him. Only a week later I thought I was going to make my move so I asked her out. But she said she had an other bf. So we (my 'friend' and I) where actually both like 'what the hell..?' I let the situation rest a little but I kept liking her very much. We talked a bit on MSN messenger but that's it.
After some weeks I figured out that her bf cheated on her so they broke up. So I asked again, she said OK: Only a date, but nothing more (cause she didn't wanted another bf yet).
We kept on talking on msn the next few days and I really thought I loved her, but I only saw here once at the party, rest of the time I only talked to her on msn. Anyways, Talking became flirting and we started using a webcam (normally). I also asked her what kind of music she liked, she said that depends on her mood. When she's in love she listens very quiet music, but now she listens everything on her mp3 player. But just one hour later I hear her listening very quiet music on the background while we where camming. Then this one night she went out, and she asked to me if I would come with her and her friends. I didn't because she asked me to bring some friends of mine also, but it was allready to late to call them. So I refused her request. The same night she called me at 3am to tell me that she thought I was cute (very seriously, though she had been drinking). I couldn't sleep because I kept thinking of her till 5:30 am.
I finally went to visit her (this is where the bad things start:)
We both didn't knew what to say because it was a rather unexpected visit. So we where most of the time just staring to each other. We agreed to go to the movie together 3 days later. But the next day she was very bad-tempered and the day after also, so I was kinda worried about our date. At the 'date-day' she called me and she was in a very good mood, a part of the conversation was like:
me: When do I have to pick you up?
her: Uuh, about that: a friend of mine asked if I would go swimming with her, and instead of a movie we can go swimming together? You can bring a friend too!
We discussed it some time, and after she pushed me a bit I finally agread to go swimming and bring a friend (but I actually liked it more to go to the movie with only the 2 of us). She also said that her little brother would come too (I was again like 'what the hell')
She arrived earlier then us because she practically lives near the swimming pool. But when we arrived I saw it was very busy and it took us a while to find her. When I finally found her I said 'hi'. The only thing she said was also 'hi' and then she went on swimming with her friend and her little brother. I thought this was a bit weird and I decided to talk to my own friend about it in an other part of the pool. After some time I tried to start a conversation with her but in the middle of the conversation she went away. I tried this 3 more times and then my friend and I went home. We where both like 'what the hell' (agian, surprise, surprise). I discussed it a little and somebody said she might brought her little brother and her friend because she was a little unsure about the whole situation. Anyways I felt pretty good ignored.
The same evening I talked to her on MSN messenger again. I told her that I felt pretty ignored and then she said sorry, but she had to look after her little brother because it was very busy and if anything would happen she was the one to blame. We talked a bit about it and I asked her if a movie maybe isn't such a bad idea for a next time. So I asked her if we would go to the movie sometimes instead of swimming. Then she said she was very busy and didn't knew if she would go out with me or not (she has a lot of tests on school this week). So she said she would tell me the IF's and the WHEN's about it. This was 2 weeks ago, her tests will end tomorrow. We only talked a bit on MSN, but those where only 'normal' conversations, she didn't mentioned anything about another date.
What should I do? Wait longer? Ask her again? What should I do? I still can't keep my mind of her, I still really like her...
We are both 17 btw... And sorry for all the mistakes I made while writing this text, my English isn't very good...
pls help!
